Still married couple from Scandinavia

[BenB]

Journal -

My birthday was December 14. Stbxw was the first one to message me and congratulate -

W: Happy birthday! (5 different emojis, birthday cake, flowers, balloon etc) Wish I could celebrate with you Hope you´ll have a wonderful day with lots of fun and joy <3

Me: Thank you very much

Honestly, I didn´t know what else to answer. I have days when I miss her still of course but it´s easy to remind myself that she doesn´t know what she wants. And I´m not going to wait around for her to figure that out while I´m being disrespected. Before she moved out, every time I showed even the slightest interest, she would become distant again.

My birthday could have been better. I had a wisdom tooth pulled out the day before and didn´t know that my face would swell up like it did so was a bit awkward meeting my friends. I´ve had one removed before but from the upper jaw which I understand now is a lot less painful. Only now am I starting to look normal again.

The only link between me and stbxw left now is that she needs to return the keys for the apartment I got for her and for her to pick up some boxes I have at my place. haven´t heard from her on either of those things yet. The keys need to be returned before end of this months so not sure what´s taking her so long.

Then of course we are still married until earliest April 10.

Tomorrow I go to Athens for my final show of the year and then holiday for me! Working in the entertainment industry means hardly any days without getting hundreds of emails which is why I love Christmas. The only time of the year where Americans don´t send you emails for around two weeks, sometimes longer