You always focus on the negative. Why don’t you list and emphasize the qualities you like about your D14?
Then turn the qualities you say you don’t like into positives.
Instead of D14 gets everything she wants because she’s gorgeous and he knows it”
How about
“Wow, D14 is beautiful. She exudes confidence! I am glad she doesn’t have a negative body image. I’m glad she can remain kind to others and her gifts have not stopped that”
