I think it's too far. Listen to how it sounds. You are, "TAKING" your WW,.that's doesn't sound voluntary too me. It sounds like.a forced action. Humiliating, not a great place too start recon. You can tell you wife you will like the no more contact statement too happen face to face, But I would rather over the phone it you want a more personal no contact notice.
A face to.face can be really dramatic, you are wanting to eliminate their interactions not give them another chance to see each other.
You should read up on no contact actions before you decide on which one you want. Read the pros and cons of each.
Joejoe
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
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