Originally Posted by cardinal


I know many of you have expressed this in regard to your own sitches before, but it’s all so sad to watch him chasing happiness in this potentially self-destructive way.



Yes, I feel sad watching my H spiral out of control as well. He is chasing happiness in all the wrong places, it seems. The happiness has to come from within, but he thinks if he leaves the marriage, he will find a happier situation. It really is all so sad. It is like watching a train wreck.


H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9
BD - 11/2019
Married 14 years; Together 20 years