I lurk on a divorced dads forum (no women allowed). I like it because they focus solely on D strategy after the BD. They say pull it together for your kids (be the lighthouse) while the WAS chases rainbows and unicorns. Kids come first. Always. They say prepare for war because some WAS's lie. "I'll take care of you" while socking away cash from a promotion they didn't tell you about. "I need time" while dating. Focus on building a solid D case - fall apart later. They say no distractions, no drinking, no dating. Keep a clear head because my life and my kids lives depend on it.
They say no distractions, no drinking, no dating. Keep a clear head because my life and my kids lives depend on it.