May is right. If you’ve followed me for 5 minutes you’d know I read everything. Status quo both financially and custody issues are difficult to overcome should she decide to fight you. I’m in the same boat financially. If he can prove I don’t need alimony I won’t get it.
You need a litigator. If you can take a day or two off go sit in family court and find one you like. Introduce yourself and get a business card. If your wife cooperates then you’re good and it won’t cost much if not you’re prepared. I already know who my judge is so I’m going to go sit in court myself to get a feel for him.