I think you are handling this well. Slow play everything. Believe nothing, verify everything.
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She claimed she already did that and has taken care of it.[quote] Don't believe this BS. I tried to believe it, it didn't work. Also, don't argue with her about it either. Just tell her "OK, that doesn't work for me".
[quote]Here is the only problem with jumping into this too quickly. Once I state my boundaries and what I must have going forward. If she doesn't hold her end of the bargain then I have to file for divorce. I don't see it any other way. This is why I am not in a hurry to begin with my boundaries.
I agree. Go slow.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
