Originally Posted by job
I am so sorry that he's dragging his feet and trying to shift the blame on to you. This is typical MLC behavior.

I agree, if you have already provided your financial information once, there should no need to do so again. Your h's solicitor should be contacting yours and the two of them sharing info. Any more letters or discussions w/your h about this, refer him to your solicitor.

At the rate your h is behaving, it may be quite a while before anything is done. It's frustrating as heck, but you've got this and you will push through it w/lots of patience and prayers.

Hang in there!



Thank you Job. As my Solicitor has said let them wait and when they as refer them back to the mediator. They have everything on record and when that happens he’ll have egg on his face. Quite like my Solicitor at times.

This has all come about because last week I showed myself to have become a little to independent for a MLCS taste. See I dared to go out and buy a new car without asking for any help from him. See in the past he would have walked me through the whole process including the taxing and insuring the car. Then I had the audacity to have him take care of our D whilst I went out with my friend for dinner . From what I understand the MLCS doesn’t like it when we become to independent. It’s certainly annoyed him because he loves Cars and has to have a good look but he can’t even bring himself to go near it . He’s also barely been able to look me in the eyes since so I know he’s one annoyed H. Oops! lol