Hi Guys,

Thanks for the reply. I've called up my Lawyer but he's having year end holiday and likely will be meeting him beginning next year.

He browsed through the draft which I forwarded to him and he flagged out with regards to the maintenance which I will be paying to her in perpetual or until she is remarried. It was just a nominal sum which I input previous but he seems to have some concern on that. Well will follow up with him when he is back.

Just last this weekend, she was still asking if I am going over to her side for the weekly dinner. I told her no. Previously I had already mentioned to her that as we are processing for the D, I will no longer go over to her place anymore. I would not want her family to have any false hope. And yet she is asking me that.

I wonder really what is going on in her mind and if she knows the seriousness of all these.

The other funny thing is she is still carrying out home improvement stuffs during this period such as planting & potting, getting a cpu fixed up for the kids and such.

Sometimes I wonder if I am dealing with a mentally ill or a WW.


M:38 W:38
T:14 M: 12
S:9 S:6
BD: 07/18
W Moved out: 5/19
W Moved in: 7/19
D draft received: 12/19