Weird Question

[peacetoday]

and also
you can change or shift your mind at any time

Sometimes it ok to keep the peace for a time or when children are involved and to create the most effective environment for the moment

even if its leading to separation and D
This MLC journey is tough...trust yourself and seek therapy to deal with your fears/feelings

This usually takes the LBS quite a while to really fully detach and let go---
Sometimes we need more time to miniter the situation, to come out of denial, to process the shock of it all-
Go easy on you

Its scary to lose someone we love so much and was hard for me to let go of the idea of being M and having my children's father available to them

There are no right or wrong...most of us learn as we go
we can learn from each other but Job is right...only we can decide when/if its time to pull the plug or stand