You are the only one that decide whether you want to do the laundry or not. If you are content doing it, then do it, but if you aren't, then don't.
The beauty of the forums is that we all have opinions/comments on how to do things. However, it is up to each poster to determine what to do in their on situation. If something works, continue to do it, if something doesn't work, then cease doing it and try something else.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
