As I mentioned, it causes anxiety to let the laundry sit there. I don’t have a garage to throw it in. I will do it on my timetable, maybe once a month or so. This is for me. I don’t put it away. Just wash and dry. He can put it away. I don’t expect anything from him. At this point, the marriage we had is over. I still have hope and am standing. That does not mean that if I do laundry a light will go off and he will realize I am what he needs. I feel I have been living on my own and I am enjoying things while he sulks in the dark. He’s not asking me for anything, doesn’t eat what I cook and basically is a boarder in our home that takes a shower and sleeps in.

My thoughts may change, this is seven months in, not seven years. I understand what you are saying, this is not eating at me. It is hurtful, but I am not letting that define me. As this progresses I will continue to learn.

Last edited by job; 12/15/19 04:58 PM. Reason: added spacing between paragraphs