So I mentioned that my H has OW in another country who happens to be 30 years younger than him...I can tell things are not going great based on my social media spying. He literally came home from work yesterday morning around 11:00 and stayed on the couch in the dark (it rained) under his covers. My D24 and I left and were gone all day. As far as I can tell, he only left the couch to microwave a quick meal. (He avoids anything I cook and opted for a frozen burrito) he didn’t watch tv. He just lays there. Could this just be stepped up avoidance or possibly a depression? He doesn’t even speak to our D unless she says something and they are one word answers.
