[quote] Hesable, I suggest you think about the boundaries that absolutely non-negotiable for you. For example, a non-negotiable boundary might be......you will not live in an open marriage. You will not have a threesome. You will not subject yourself and/or your children to people bringing drugs into your home; displaying inappropriate behavior; using foul language, etc. in your home. You will not live with anyone who is abusive to your children, or to yourself. These are just a few off the top of my head, as examples. Everyone needs to know what their non-negotiable boundaries are, and not wait until something happens.
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Sandi2, thanks. Now that you put it this way, I definitely do have boundaries. No domestic violence. No open marriage. No threesomes. No one hurting my children. No drugs.
I appreciate your post. Very thought-provoking. I have so much to think about.
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9 BD - 11/2019 Married 14 years; Together 20 years
