BTW, we have a current poster who has a happy ending recently...Westo. She worked very hard and that hard work paid off. You may want to read her threads.
HaWho had a man/child living in his little "dorm room" in the basement for quite some time, but he's now off in the cold, cruel world and still making life just a little tad nutty for HaWho, Unfortunately, this relation went south, but HaWho did the hard, necessary work on herself and for her children and she's one of our brightest stars in surviving and making a new life for herself.
Try to remember that success stories don't necessarily mean marriages/relationships survive. Success stories are also about the posters learning and growing and rediscovering themselves along the way and coming out the other side of the crisis far, far better than when they were in the eye of the crisis.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
