Those of you who have been successful in instilling fear of loss, please give me pointers. H is so irrational now that I am not sure he will even react to anything. I think he wants to go. Even bringing up the effect this will have on the children has not helped. His parents divorced when he was a young adult.
The only way this is successful it to NOT do something to instill fear in him. IE, you really start to move on. If you do really move on he will start to feel that and it COULD.....key word.....COULD instill him with a fear of loss. Or he may be so far gone he doesn't care if he loses you.
Either way, whether it scares him or whether it doesn't, moving on is the right move. After all, when you really think about, what other choice do you really have??
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
