Those of you who have been successful in instilling fear of loss, please give me pointers. H is so irrational now that I am not sure he will even react to anything. I think he wants to go. Even bringing up the effect this will have on the children has not helped. His parents divorced when he was a young adult.


H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9
BD - 11/2019
Married 14 years; Together 20 years