Had to fill in a few forms today about the house sale. I politely pushed back on a large chunk of them to W and she has filled them in without complaining. Thansk DS, that worked!

I filled in the bits that only I could because the original forms were emailed to me personally. I've done that.

Just need to wait for W's next instruction. I'm not really communicating with the estate agents - it's all her project remember - so just waiting for my next task really.

Separate issue:
Do I give W an Xmas present? I mentioned on an earlier thread; I have a non-romantic thing (small, cheap) that I could give her. It doesn't really have any significance in our relationship - it's just a small item that I might get a friend for example.

I also really want to write a little note for her to say effectively, "sorry that it came to this" but I know, I KNOW, that is not the right thing to do and won't really help anything. When D finally goes through it feels like a note would be closure, but I know this isn't Hollywood.


I'm so tired of all this, and it's only been 6 months. Her stubbornness and impulsive nature knows no bounds.

I will be ok though. I'm remaining positive.

"Hope for the best, prepare for the worst" isn't it?


Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020