Core: thanks for that. I am going to try to abide by the DB rules. It is one of the most difficult things I have ever done and requires extreme patience. I just want to shake my H for his disrespectful behavior (staying out all night long two and three times a week with whom I suspect is an OW when we have kids at home who need him). He says he will be here for the kids but he has already neglected a number of his regular responsibilities (e.g., taking the kids to school certain days, helping with homework at least a day or two a week).
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9 BD - 11/2019 Married 14 years; Together 20 years