By the way all the above behaviors are just to keep me on the hook. In no way has she shown true remorse or affection toward me and the situation. So no I ain't buying what she is trying to sell.
She wants to go to counseling to say she tried. She wants to control everything and she feels like she is losing control of me and this is only a natural reaction to try and continue to manipulate and control me. Her job situation - she blames me for telling the OM wife. "No it is her mess and her fault".
