This seems trivial, but I dont know how to proceed. For those that read my story, in May, H did the BD. He then left the country for work for 3 months. When he came back, he did not empty suitcases right away and he has traveled to see OW a few times since. HOWEVER, he has worn clothes and throws them in the hamper. I let them sit there at least a month before I approach and asked him if he wanted his clothes washed. He is putting clothes there again. Now, I do laundry anyway, but I am really annoyed since he does not speak to me. Yet, I do not want an overflowing hamper either. When I went a month, he literally went and bought underwear and socks. This is not cost effective. What would you do? We have not had any discussion about our R since that day. I pretty much left him alone after the BD then he left the country, so I learned how to live alone.
