The cake eating that H is doing is what is driving me completely insane. He is having the time of his life and, meanwhile, I am falling apart all while trying to pretend all is well (180ing, detaching, GAL) and take care of 2 children while working full-time.
I spoke with one therapist who told me I need to let him know I am angry. She says I am making it easy for him to do what he is doing and he needs to feel some pressure. That he will just continue if I allow it. This of course is contrary to DB advice. I am so conflicted!!!
Last edited by HesAble; 12/13/1904:00 PM.
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9 BD - 11/2019 Married 14 years; Together 20 years
