Hi H! What's helped me living with a S whom is most likely in an affair or a serious MLC whom I can't kick out is to call a trusted contact to vent, have family over, see a counselor, come here to post or exercise. Standard cardio exercising or something peaceful like yoga may not take away the anger...what I like is boxing (the air, have no bag), something intense pushing your limits like high numbers or burpees, or high jumps, or something like Tae Bo. I know its hard to see your H just about everyday. Makes it harder to detach and GAL. He seems to be cake eating as the vets call it. How to end the cake eating I'll leave to the vets. You're not alone in such a difficult circumstance!
H37, W37 D4, S2 ILYBNILWY 9/19 BD 9/19 EA discovered 10/19 Currently in limbo, no D or S process initiated
