May, that's a good idea. I can take the kids Xmas shopping or to the library some of these nights. Might be good for all of us. Before BD, I often tried to get W out of the house to give her time and space from full time mom duties but she'd rarely take it and I'd get little 1-1 time with the kids. She still has a push present (trip away from home) from after having our first child she has yet to use! This'll get me some much desired 1-2 time with the kids.
We barely talk whatsoever and distance ourselves most nights at home. I'm not sure how we are supposed to even be "friends" or coparents if she will talk about almost nothing, hide her plans with the kids and talk solely about the kids if we do talk. Almost like she is reading all the DB rules. Anyone else deal with this? My D4 talks to me more in a night than my W has in a month. She's GALing and picking up old hobbies. Starting to seem more and more like an early MLC. If this is a WW/WAS/MLC, the actions for the LBS are still the same, correct? Follow the rules, 180, GAL, read about attraction etc.
H37, W37 D4, S2 ILYBNILWY 9/19 BD 9/19 EA discovered 10/19 Currently in limbo, no D or S process initiated
