She has told me that the draft she passed to me will be the terms and conditions for our Divorce. Her Lawyer will not be sending anything to my Lawyer's office. I can just proceed to my Lawyer's Office myself and check if the terms are fine.
If they are, we can just make an appointment with her Lawyer and sign it at her office and the Divorce will be finalized in 3-5 months. Would not even need to attend the court hearing as everything will be handled by her Lawyer.
To which I asked her upon then we will dispose our current house? She mentioned yes. Then I asked if there are any time frame which that has to be done? She mentioned no.
For now, I just replied: ok thanks. I will check with my Lawyer.
Am thinking how should I react to the above as of now. I got the feeling that the ball is "Served into my court" from the above exchange. That instead of her Lawyer serving the official notice to mine, I got to go check with my Lawyer if all is fine and then make an appointment with her to go to her Lawyer's office to sign.
And the open time frame bout disposing the house? I have some questions with that which I will have to clarify with my Lawyer. It would be like if there is no limitation on time frame when we will be disposing the house, I bet shes very likely going to sit on it base on the laziness of the WAW and then really cake eating having the Single status yet enjoying the benefit of family?
I do have the option to contest on her divorce application and drag the finalization of it to wait out the separation period of 3 years. Am considering about that.
Any advise to spare me here vets? Anything would be good in how I should take it from here or behave.
Last edited by ToSmile; 12/13/1908:40 AM.
M:38 W:38 T:14 M: 12 S:9 S:6 BD: 07/18 W Moved out: 5/19 W Moved in: 7/19 D draft received: 12/19
