Thank you so much! Appreciate the support and positive vibes.

It wasn’t as horrible as I imagined, but we are going to trial. Not surprising.

The mediator caught on pretty quickly and said it seemed like ex had been primed and, as such, the mediator was suspicious. The mediator started the convo by touting his amazing track record for settling tough cases and within 15 minutes was saying, no way are you guys going to settle. He even called ex’s lawyer an a**h***. That’s what we’re dealing with here.... welcome to the party....

If any of you recall details from my story from like a year or two ago.... ex brought up the stupid beanie again. He wants a beanie back that he thinks I have. And it’s an item in our litigation. Sigh.

Should I just go on amazon and buy him 50 beanies?!?!

I couldn’t even believe it came up in the division of property/assets. Oh my word.


Me- 30's H- 40's
T-10 M-5
I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15
D filed by H: September 16