Hi PLC, Just dropping some support your way-- you seem incredibly strong. I know what you mean about when their behavior affects the kids-- totally wrong and anger-inducing. I'm right there with you. But it seems like you are able to generally observe his behavior and not let it affect you too much, and that is awesome.
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing