Job, thank you. As I read your response I see many other signs that happened before the BD, obsessing over looks, and work.

Now, I see with his social media, he is almost obsessing over the OW. He is very junior high in his behavior which I understand is normal for MLC.

I will look at the MLC board. I hope there are a couple of happy endings that resulted in the MLC returning. I know our marriage will never be the same, and in some sense that is good, because no one deserves to feel this way, the MLC for their reasons, and the LBS thrown on this journey.

I have learned in the last seven months I am stronger than I knew.

Thank you.

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