Yeah, I personally would not have sent a text message concerning a big, serious life-altering BD like I can't work on this marriage anymore. But H decided to do this. Communication in our marriage has been extremely poor and it has not been all his fault. I have contributed to this too. Probably explains how we got to this point without much warning.

Last edited by HesAble; 12/12/19 11:29 PM.
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9
BD - 11/2019
Married 14 years; Together 20 years