Since you have MLCers living under the same roof, I am going to suggest that you look up HaWho's threads. She had a man/child living under her roof for a long time and he finally left in the last year or so. She went through h@ll, but she came out the other side. She also has two sons still living in the home.
I am very, very proud of the way that she handled her situation. You might pick up some pointers from her threads.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
