Should I assist W with the L forms re house sale? They have sent a few things out to me but as W has been liaising with the estate agents I don't really know what I'm supposed to be doing. I've forwarded them to W and asked if we both need to supply info, or if she has the info already and can just do it herself.
In helping the house sale by filling in a couple of forms, I'm still worrying that I'm giving her the impression that I don't want her, and that I want the D to happen. I don't want to argue by saying "no I won't do that - you do it," but not sure if me helping is telling her that I don't care and that I agree the M is over and we have no chance of R in the future.
One part of me is however thinking, well if she cannot be bothered, do I WANT to be with someone who has no interest in working on a M when things get rough and tough, and instead just throws it away because she would rather stick by principles she had when she was 17 and not change and remain stubborn? Trouble is, for all her flaws, she was great for me in so many ways.
Or does this not matter now - do I just do it, not be obstructive, just remain polite, and continue to GAL and just eventually get to a stage where - if we do meet up - she will see a changed, confident me and be left wondering what she has thrown away? Having said that, I do know that my changes are for ME not her. I get that.
Last edited by DaB35; 12/12/1907:14 PM.
Me - 36, W - 32 No kids T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr Discovery - 14 May 2019 S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019 D & House sale final - Feb 2020
