Mine journey took a long time. I was a year in and I thought we were moving along and I found out that my wife was still working through things. People think that if your wife takes divorce off the table that means that she's committed to the marriage. Nope, it doesn't work like that. The process for me was first she had an awakening or what ever and decided that she didn't want to divorce. But then she was in a holding pattern. It did take the pressure off, but it also made me more anxious and wanted to move things along. But we had to move a her speed. I had to be okay with that.
Now many spouses in our situations aren't okay with that and they become the WAS. Only you know the answer to this
I'm glad that you "know" it, but she doesn't not right now.
