I plan to continue wearing my wedding band as a personal choice. Until we are divorced, I am still married in my opinion. Also, I am detaching, 180ing, etc but think the ring sends the message to H that all is not lost. H still wears his wedding band too but the BD was just a month ago. In time he may decide to take it off. I feel like he is taking baby steps.
FWIW, we still live under the same roof but in separate parts of the house. H seems to be having an affair, staying out all night until 10 - 11 a.m. some nights. He no longer tells me where he is going or when he will return. So far he does not stay more than 24 hours. I think this is only for the sake of our young children.
Last edited by HesAble; 12/12/1905:05 PM.
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9 BD - 11/2019 Married 14 years; Together 20 years
