WMLC, limbo is always a bizarre place to be. The WAS cake-eats. Often times the LBS lets them in the spirit of trying to "nice" them back. The dynamic was the same in my limbo. Outside of our R talks, my W acted and behaved as if things were fine between us.

Also, flip-flopping on things like keeping the house vs. selling the house is common. This is no way is meant to make you start pursuing or get over hopeful, but the fact that the reality of finances is starting to settle in is a good thing.

As far as if or when she'll hit rock bottom....don't dwell on it. Just keep DBing and let the chips fall where they may.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018