I think I have had a big step backwards. As I said I am in Seville and I asked to pick up my children one day during the week and my W told me she could not make it work and I should not be unfair.
I insisted this Morning on picking them up today or tomorrow and she told me the following:
W: I cannot keep going like this. I will have to block you on Whatsapp. You are being unfair, when you have them every 2 weekends I do not bother you and you have 24hr, I only have 2 hr after work.
Me: I only want to see them 30 min in the park now that I am here in Seville. I do understand you must be very busy.
W: I do not want to speak to you. Talking to me you are not going to fix anything
Me: Regardless of what happens between us please do not get the children in between. Have a great day.
I am preparing a house here in Seville with my family, seeing friends and going out and I keep up with the sports routines but being so close to her and receiving such contempt and ignorance is bringing me down. I know we are here for the long run, we are here to be the rock of the family and the lighthouse in their lives but I feel a doormat she feels she has the right to ignore and push out of her life.
Could I get some help on how to stop the dynamics she is on, she clearly is pointing towards D...
Thanks a lot to all of you!
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Me 29 W:29 M: 5yrs T:10yrs S:6 yrs S:1 yr BD: "I want a D" 08/09/19 Sep: 10/27/19
