Journal -

Stbxw messaged me about 2 hours ago. I was on my way home when I saw it.

W: Hi, so I have a little issue. The company that was supposed to move all my things stood me up and I´m in my hallway with all my stuff, idk what to do. Can´t rent a car by myself either. Do you think you can help me? It will just take one round, everything will fit in one car same size as we had when I moved out. I will pay you of course! I really really need help...

Me: Which date were you supposed to move?

W sends me a picture of all her things packed up in the apartment.

W: Right now frown I´ve called 10 companies. They are all booked. Waiting for reply from the last one.

Me: I´ll get back to you when I´m home.

Wasn´t sure what to do or what this was. I knew I can´t help her move so I thought about asking my brother if he knows people who she could hire to help her instead. But then she wrote -

W: I just got an offer from that last company if I wanted, expensive but I could take that if you can´t. Don´t want you to feel pressure.

I didn´t answer at first so she wrote again

W: What do you think?

Me: How much will they charge?

W: 2000 SEK(approx.200 usd) if we manage within two hours.

Me: That´s not that expensive, you should take it. Renting a van would cost 1400 sek for 24 hours but sounds like you can manage in 2.

W: Okey, I´ll do that then smile Never hire this company xxxxx!

Me: Ok, good luck! Ok, thanks!

W: Thank you smile


That´s the first I´ve heard from her in a while. I assume she actually needed help but can´t help but wonder if she wants to see if I´m still attached in some way.


Me: 38
Stbxw: 35
No kids
Mini bd: February 6, 2019
ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019
Told her to move out: September 8, 2019
W moved out: September 28, 2019
Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019