Ha -- it always takes me awhile to come up with a title, and within 24 hours I regret my choice.
I decided to go positive today. It's hard to maintain a PMA sometimes. But early in my sitch I latched onto the idea that "this is a GIFT" and I think about it every day. It keeps me from wallowing sometimes.
I think it's also in Cadet's introductory response when you first post here.
