Welcome and sorry you are here copsgirl. Please read the homework above provided by job it helped me immensely. You will find love and support on this board and most of all it helps to rid you of the feeling of being alone. Read people's stories and you will find strength and encouragement in the marriages that survived but just as important you will also find power in the marriages that didn't make it, as you realize the LBS usually comes out of it a better person. Visit often.
