Hi Beth~ I am always happier when I know H is out of town. Somehow it is comforting to know I have no chance of running into him.
AT one point last year he talked about moving two hours away. At the time I was devastated, now I think it would be great for me! GOOD LUCK!
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)