Just in general it sounds like MLC. Regarding OW, it sounds like you are hoping it will crash and burn, but just understand she is an EFFECT of what he is going through, not the CAUSE. She will come and go, and then there will probably be OW2, OW3, who knows how many. It sounds like you are giving him tons of time and space, that is GOOD! Not speaking to him days at a time actually plays in your favor. MLCers cannot stand pressure so you are doing good at removing the pressure. Whatever he is going through, you can't help him. It's a journey he has to make alone.
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I don't know if he is in replay, Withdrawal or Depression
MLC is not an exact science where the various stages are obvious. It's very confusing and cloudy. You can't really "diagnose" someone as being in MLC or determine what stage of it they are in, or how long they will be in it and when they will come out of the tunnel. Read the threads and stickies in the MLC forum, I think they will help.
