MLC or Exit Afffair?

[HesAble]

I am trying to GAL and detach. I think I am doing a pretty good job at detachment, but yesterday and today I have felt so down. Today I just want to lay around and sulk.

Last night he spent the night at home. We sleep separately. He seemed a little more comfortable spending time in the same room with me, possibly because of the detachment. I don't know.

I am getting anxious because of the holidays, not knowing what to expect in sharing time with the children. I have no idea what his plans are although I assume they will not include me for sure.

I admit that during our MR, I had become very distant, resentful and angry. I am hoping the detachment does not appear to be like this. I try to be as attractive as possible, available yet stay out of the way, and more "happy" acting.

I read DB a few years ago, but need to read it again.

Thanks so much job for all the links!