If you are wavering, tell us what you think are the other benefits to going.
Benefits would be to help with moving on through divorce peacefully. She has been clear its not to save the marriage but rather to work on our relationship. She probably feels this way due to us not talking as much and showing contempt for one another.
I do think it is more about helping her feel less guilty. When I told her it had to be about the 2 stipulations I set up she stated that, "you will have to trust me".
In this case, don't go.
W: I can't believe you don't want to work on our D'd relationship for the kids' sake!
I asked that question b/c I ended up going in my sitch. We physically S'ed after the first session, and had I not continue to go, my W would have withheld the kids from staying overnight at my house and I would have had a court battle. I didn't want that for my kids. But even so, sometimes I wonder if I made the right choice.
