She is begging for counseling. Any advice on this issue. If she is not sure she wants to be married then I don't think counseling will help. Everything I have read or studied says it will not do any good.
It might would help us with communication but this may be a last ditch effort to keep us on speaking terms going into a divorce or separation. I think she wants to do counseling because I have distanced myself from her. It seems if I didn't try then I may regret to giving it a chance. Am i wrong in this regard?
Ask her what the purpose would be.
Her first sentence should be telling. If she want things to be better than great.
If it's about coparenting, an amicable divorce, etc... than hell naw!
If she hasn't gone cold turkey on POS OM than hell naw!
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
