He's rewritten history and kept saying I'm crazy and it's been 30 years over and over. Says he's been unhappy since the beginning. He's miserable and if he dumps me he will be happy. Told me "its time for me to take care of myself". I'm not sure how much of what happened 6 years ago played a part in this I just know it's a factor. BD looked like a nervous breakdown.

He's still drinking heavily and working a lot. He's desperately trying to buy the kids love but they have lost respect for him. They take his gifts and go back to their regularly scheduled lives. D17 still isn't talking to him.

I'm getting no signs that he's been served nor have I heard from my attorney. It's been 3 weeks.

Last edited by kas99; 12/11/19 04:11 PM.