A close friend asked how I was doing - I said I was doing well, keeping very busy with things (didn't go into lots of detail). He then asked about my IC and I said it had wrapped up and I completed it last month.

He is a close mutual friend of W too, so at some point he will tell her what I've told him. I think what I said was sufficient - not too detailed (I didn't list all my GAL stuff for example), and I just gave confident positive answers.

My mum has written an Xmas card to W's parents. I haven't seen what she's written in it. We've agreed if W's mum rings her, and asks about me she'll say "He's fine. He's very busy with work and other things" initially and leave it at that.


Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020