Hi Goonies. No extra words of wisdom except what has already been said by others. Focus on you. Be the best person you can be for you and your kids. Take all of the pressure off your WAS. When you see her, treat her like a neighbour that you like but don’t know well. Polite, upbeat and gracious. You WILL get through this regardless of the outcome and if you do the things that are being suggested, you will be amazed at how much better you will feel in a year. (((HUGS)))