a big adjustment for the LBS...Did the younger kids stay with her?
many MLCers become irresponsible parents
If they are using drugs, prescriptions or alcohol excessively they need to be watched Many get worse over time
as time went on, my XH became more irresponsible He came less to visit
He was once a good father, hard worker and totally sober man- he became an awful parent
They change into a different person they are unreachable
This is the time for you to look within, heal yourself, get spiritual, create a new life for you and the kids MLC takes a long time 2-7 years and some longer Therapy is helpful for LBS as this is a huge adjustment
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
