We've got family counselling in 2 days, all r talks have been agreed to be put off until then.
I don't know if this is the opportunity to make it clear I don't want a divorce, I'd prefer to work on things.
It gets emotional in the sessions, for me anyway.
Not going to bring up this guy she likes or anything.
I do want to raise that I would like to break the drama triangle we always fall into of rescuer, victim, persucutor.

Feel I have to say or communicate something about how I'm not giving up to make things easier for her so she can cake eat.

I don't know, so much I want to say, none of it feels particularly helpful to sitch other than coming across as needy.

Any advice welcome on how I can approach this counselling session.


Bd August 2019 after 16years
S 12
D 6