The big thing I've seen in others posts Kas, even if you found someone for the time being, you might be blinded by your feelings. Times like this are when men and women are taken advantage of by predatory people. You don't want that for you or the kids. You're ahead of me so its easier for me to say but you will be happier in the long run working on yourself and taking the time to find a quality partner rather than potentially be taken advantage of. Imagine going home to someone you hate or an abuser, someone using you for cash, for a home, for whatever it may be. You'd wish you were alone!
There is no doubt my picker will be off for a while. Until I can be alone I should not date. Too risky. I do know this I'm just pouting. I was doing great until I got kicked out of my house. He notified me I was moving by cc'ing me on the email he sent to the rental company. Nice right?