If it's possible to be happy alone then why does it seem like most people are partnered back up? And why do the people who are alone seem unhappy? I'm surrounded by people who are on their 2nd marriages. The only single woman I work with is unhappy.

Is this some sort of zen thing where few figure this out and everyone else jumps into a new R? I mean that's what I'd be doing if I hadn't found this board. In a heartbeat.